Now keep in mind, these outbursts are rarely a personal attack.
They are the result of our inability to express emotions. We foster the need to be appreciated and wanted; it keeps us stable and emotionally sound.
We try to give so much but expect so little in return that it becomes all we look for in order to feel accepted.
I bet you're wondering how to approach such a complex personality type? Despite our strong exterior, we have tender hearts.
Here the keywords are Introversion, Sensing, Feeling and Judging which make for partners who are caring, sensitive and loyal even though sometimes they may seem overly concerned with details.
Here are a few things to keep in mind when dating an IFSJ type.]TIP: Read this book which has 2000 questions you can ask your partner.
The smallest actions can have the largest impacts on us.
So if you are interested in impressing a guy or girl of this personality type, make sure you are careful of their feelings.
We all react the same, but we each handle it differently. Give us concrete evidence that we mean something to you. We are wired to keep others happy, so if we feel as though you aren't happy with us then that makes us question whether or not we did something wrong or if we are even relevant in your life. We can never tell when we've overextended our ability to care.
When this happens, we neglect ourselves for the betterment of others.
We thrive on connecting with the few rather than meeting the many.
Our personality type comes with faults, as anyone's would.